Dont’ be afraid to love; all you have to do is to make it more prayerful, advises OSHO
There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the fence. The first day, the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily, gradually became fewer. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence. Finally, the day came when the boy didn’t lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.
Don’t be stupid and get drawn into a war with your own self, warns OSHO
You cannot measure love; and love does not diminish when you share it, says OSHO